We go thru life making mistakes or choices that can effect how we come to be or who we are in the future. When you say something..do you really mean it? Or do you just say it because of how you feel at that moment...You know, we can never see the future...If we did we would be changing so many things right now..But i ask you this...Is it right to change things?...To do the things we do...is it all right?....Even though we tell the truth at times it doesnt matter...your life is effected by the choices you have made...Wether they be good or bad...They still come back to haunt a person...And when you have done so many things in life...that you cant help but remember...the haunting builds up....It never goes away...So how do we make up for the wrong that we have done?...Is there even a way to do that?...How do we know what to do....When to do it....And how to explain what we did?...Life has those changes were you can be a totally different person at one time...then the next you are someone who isnt like that...then maybe back agian at some point...But does that make the person happy?...Do we then know who we are truely?...Can we define who we are by saying that is who we are then change the next moment..And what about the others around us...They are effected by our choices too...And when we see what we did wrong finally...You see that it is a mistake you can never take back...And you can lose so many things...But when does that end?...When does the trouble or pain go away....When do we say "this is who i am...do you accept me?"..How do we outline a friend?,,,someone who sticks near you? someone who knows you? or someone who is nice?...Why are we judged by our actions...when we try to explain them...we dont know why...but people think we do...Does that mean we are all bad people?...Also, how can we define our emotions...How can Someone say they are happy...when they dont know for sure what happy is?...How can someone say they know what it feels like to be hurt...Why does it last so long too?,,,Are we still who we were yesterday?..Or are we different?...Do we really actually have friends...or just companions that go away for a long time...How do we say sorry...for the wrong that we do?,,,When people dont accept it....How do we show people that we have changed...that we have changed who we are on the inside...but on the outside we dont see it...Does it matter to people if we change?.,,To change to be accepted....Are we really who we want to be...or did we kill the person we wanted to become..just so we could have friends....But...Do we really want to be accepted to people...Dont we want to be unique?,,,Or must we find out what everyone wants...and make them happy....When you see a question...Do you think of all the possibleities...Or do you just asume...Even if its right...do we know the whole picture...Do we see the meaning behind things...That an object is nto only an object..but more...Do we really show how much we care...does it show how much we care to people...do our voices even count for something?...When we lose something in our life...does it ever come back...or does it still continue to haunt us...giving us pain every day...making us think on what we did that day...and never going away...seeing what came out because of it...Am i to say sorry...for being a good person...who did wrong while growing up...or am i to say sorry...for being a person who did wrong while growing up...and tries to change to be good...to help others...to be what i want to become...and to leave what i was away...Can we really stop?...Can we really change our ways...Can people be forgiven...These questions....I dont know the awnsers...the always change us...People change us..."Some people come into our lives and quickly go...Some stay for a while, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same agian.." ~Flavia Weedn....Where do those people go?,,,Can we not say we cared for them...That we must forget about what happened...Can we say that we share peoples pain..but in a different way...How can we heal wounds...All these things can change someone dramatically...And when we change...we dont know who we are anymore...or what we will become...Even if the change was good...the past will catch up to you...So should we relaly change...Even if it helps those...or the person themselves...to be happy...to make others happy...Should we change in life...or just stay the same and be sorted into some catagory....Should we?...should we accept the changes in life...should we change...should we....be even...accepted....at all...for who we are...